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Post by pammy on Jan 22, 2024 21:45:49 GMT -5
Why BLACK MEN choose WHITE WOMEN
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Post by pammy on Jan 22, 2024 21:50:37 GMT -5
So it's not to do with the color of thier skin but more about what they are looking for in a woman?
A 'culture' thing?
What is wrong with the 'culture' that black women follow?
What I get from that video is that black men are fed up with aggressive, argumentative black women.
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Post by hank on Jan 22, 2024 22:08:54 GMT -5
Good video, I’d say he is correct in most cases. But let’s not forget there’s black women raised in quality cultures as well. And without doubt they too are chosen for the same reason.
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Post by Rusty on Jan 23, 2024 2:50:18 GMT -5
Why BLACK MEN choose WHITE WOMEN Not sure what this nonsense is about.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 23, 2024 14:54:29 GMT -5
If two people fall in love, then i think anything is possible. I know in Oklahoma the mix marriages are starting to see progress.
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Post by Rusty on Jan 23, 2024 17:07:21 GMT -5
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Post by foxy on Jan 23, 2024 19:28:57 GMT -5
I've seen a lot of interviews with black women who get mad at black men for exclusively dating and marring white women. Also, on the flip side of the coin, black women who say they can't find good marriage material in the black community that matches their education level and drive for success so they exclusively date white men. Either way, that's sad.
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Post by deyana on Jan 23, 2024 20:31:38 GMT -5
I've seen a lot of interviews with black women who get mad at black men for exclusively dating and marring white women. Also, on the flip side of the coin, black women who say they can't find good marriage material in the black community that matches their education level and drive for success so they exclusively date white men. Either way, that's sad. I've noticed such articles as well. It is sad. So much judgement set on appearances alone. In the video he says it's all to do with 'culture'. I'm not exactly sure what he means by that... There is culture just for black women?
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Post by apple on Jan 23, 2024 21:22:19 GMT -5
I've seen a lot of interviews with black women who get mad at black men for exclusively dating and marring white women. Also, on the flip side of the coin, black women who say they can't find good marriage material in the black community that matches their education level and drive for success so they exclusively date white men. Either way, that's sad. I've noticed such articles as well. It is sad. So much judgement set on appearances alone. In the video he says it's all to do with 'culture'. I'm not exactly sure what he means by that... There is culture just for black women? Well I sort of get it, social circles to do with wealth and education? I think if you are drawn to someone, colour does not matter.
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Post by deyana on Jan 23, 2024 21:25:21 GMT -5
I think if you are drawn to someone, colour does not matter. I agree, love is blind as they say. I guess, yeah, there is still a class system of sorts in place. I think education and where you were educated might have a lot to do with it.
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Post by foxy on Jan 23, 2024 22:39:40 GMT -5
The times I dated men of different cultures/races was based solely on their character and compatibility. Race wasn't an issue for me. I do however get that the segment of the black community who grew up in fragmented or dysfunctional families have more difficulty finding strong family minded partners and maintaining healthy families of their own. This is a bi-product of generations of the breakdown of once tightly knit black communities for which I largely blame faux beneficent government intrusion.
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Post by pammy on Jan 24, 2024 14:59:07 GMT -5
Not sure what this nonsense is about. Why do call it nonsense? These are the things that are effecting the black communities today.
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Post by deyana on Jan 25, 2024 19:41:54 GMT -5
The times I dated men of different cultures/races was based solely on their character and compatibility. Race wasn't an issue for me. I do however get that the segment of the black community who grew up in fragmented or dysfunctional families have more difficulty finding strong family minded partners and maintaining healthy families of their own. This is a bi-product of generations of the breakdown of once tightly knit black communities for which I largely blame faux beneficent government intrusion. Good points. If you grow up without one parent or the other, it shapes your mind to accept that as normal and the way to be. I don't live in an area where there are many black people, very few here. The dynamics of black family life in the US is something I have no seen myself, but I have read about it quite a bit. Let's not forget that some people are simply not attracted to others of their own race, in a romantic way. So they will look for a life partners or marriage partners in other races.
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Post by foxy on Jan 25, 2024 19:44:49 GMT -5
^ There is that too deyana. Opposites attract.
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Post by deyana on Jan 25, 2024 19:46:21 GMT -5
They do, more than we know.
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Post by Belle on Jan 26, 2024 1:16:01 GMT -5
If you have friends of different races you'll 'fall' for the one you feel most suited to. Race has nothing to do with it. You're gonna love who you're gonna love. Period.
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Post by 🦍MAXX>ⓤ on Jan 26, 2024 14:37:56 GMT -5
Why anyone would even consider marriage in today's society is beyond me regardless of color...
Personally I don't care what color, sex, religion, etc...if someone wants to get married they should...Have 2 friends that are in prearranged marriages but it is none of my business...
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Post by raven on Jan 26, 2024 19:56:41 GMT -5
I think it's anyone's business what other people choose to do. For whatever the reason. Let them live their lives I say. I've dated people from different races, it's really not a big deal.
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Post by Rusty on Jan 26, 2024 20:54:03 GMT -5
Not sure what this nonsense is about. Why do call it nonsense? These are the things that are effecting the black communities today. Why does it matter if black men choose a white woman? How is that a negative? I'm white and chose a black woman. Big deal
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Post by Deleted on Jan 27, 2024 10:17:07 GMT -5
I think we should go back to the times when we had a lot more of Mind Your own Business.
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