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Post by foxy on Mar 7, 2024 15:43:14 GMT -5
This made me smile, just wanted to pass it on...
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Post by deyana on Mar 7, 2024 15:59:35 GMT -5
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Post by 🦍MAXX＞ⓤ on Mar 7, 2024 21:20:20 GMT -5
This made me smile, just wanted to pass it on... Simple question and not trying to start a fight, but if he was gay would you feel the same way??? |
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Post by foxy on Mar 7, 2024 21:34:21 GMT -5
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Post by apple on Mar 7, 2024 21:39:40 GMT -5
Wow, that it really touching foxy. I was adopted as an infant and it was not a secret. This is unusual I am not sure how I feel about it to be honest. |
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Post by foxy on Mar 7, 2024 21:46:22 GMT -5
🦍MAXX＞ⓤ sweetie, I thought it would be refreshing to have a thread that was happy and lighthearted. There are more than enough threads for people to discuss political correctness and politics. If you want a thread where we can discuss/debate gay adoption, go ahead and start one. I'm fairly certain it will get pages of comments while this thread will fill one at the most and get burried in a day or two.
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Post by foxy on Mar 7, 2024 21:53:55 GMT -5
apple, I honestly don't know if I'd been adopted would I want to know. There are pros and cons either way. Then there's the question of tell them young or wait until they're older. I have known several adoptees and most spent years trying to find their biological parents even though they grew up in happy homes with good, loving parents. They just had questions they wanted answers to. Open adoption, such as was the case in these videos is more uncommon I think.
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Post by apple on Mar 7, 2024 22:03:27 GMT -5
apple , I honestly don't know if I'd been adopted would I want to know. There are pros and cons either way. Then there's the question of tell them young or wait until they're older. I have known several adoptees and most spent years trying to find their biological parents even though they grew up in happy homes with good, loving parents. They just had questions they wanted answers to. Open adoption, such as was the case in these videos is more uncommon I think. Yes, its complicated and what works for some, might not work for another. I recall many times being frustrated when asked by a doctor about family history. What was more of an issue for me was not looking like anyone in my family. I would hear people say things like they have their mothers smile or their fathers feet! And I felt a longing to know more about me. I loved my adoptive family and grew up well loved, I was extremely lucky. Also I have met my first mom, this happened in the last decade and it was perfect timing. |
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Post by foxy on Mar 7, 2024 23:17:37 GMT -5
Didn't know when I posted the first clip that this family had their own channel. I'm enjoying their cute short videos...
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Post by 🦍MAXX＞ⓤ on Mar 7, 2024 23:59:31 GMT -5
🦍MAXX＞ⓤ sweetie, I thought it would be refreshing to have a thread that was happy and lighthearted. There are more than enough threads for people to discuss political correctness and politics. If you want a thread where we can discuss/debate gay adoption, go ahead and start one. I'm fairly certain it will get pages of comments while this thread will fill one at the most and get burried in a day or two. Sadly, you are 100% correct... |
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Post by rico on Mar 8, 2024 3:02:30 GMT -5
This made me smile, just wanted to pass it on... Simple question and not trying to start a fight, but if he was gay would you feel the same way??? How do you know he's not gay? |
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