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Post by flan327 on Feb 18, 2022 8:00:41 GMT -5
I'm no pro, but if you just want to talk, vent, bitch or whatever you can always send me a PM. Yes depression thrives in isolation People here DO care
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Post by flan327 on Feb 18, 2022 8:01:31 GMT -5
Just my own thoughts so not saying anyone should agree or apply to themselves. But, I used to think that i was "supposed" to be happy all the time or somehow my thinking was "wrong". Well, over time I learned that I can embrace all of my feelings, the good and the bad. And that ok maybe i wake up and feel out of sorts and that is my feeling but I dont' necessarily have to let that stop my actions for that day. And usually once i get going, then i feel fine. Again, not an approach for everyone but works for me. Good advice How can we know what happiness is if we’ve never been sad?
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Post by Deleted on Feb 18, 2022 8:07:34 GMT -5
I think we are taught to always put on a happy face. Especially women. I have been confronted by the Smile Police before buying groceries or standing in a check out line. Feeling fine, deep in thought, then some random stranger comments on my face? Like what? I am here minding my own business and my facial muscles are not your concern. Geez.
And, then people who may feel things more deeply think they have to numb their emotions and then get into trouble with addiction, etc. I tried to teach my kids, that it's OK to feel mad, glad, sad, etc. You also have to learn to accept that you are going disappoint others with your personal decisions sometimes and so what? Let them be disappointed. Dd had a situation where she needed to make a decision between attending one of two things which both needed and depended on her. I told you cannot be in both places. But, you need to make the decision that is best for YOU and someone is going to be disappointed and oh well. Trying to help them get more comfortable in accepting uncomfortable feelings.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 18, 2022 8:08:31 GMT -5
I honestly LIKE wearing masks in a way. Shuts down the Smile Police! lol
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Post by Deleted on Feb 18, 2022 8:33:36 GMT -5
@diobolic , you didn't reply to the question I asked in this quote of me you posted where you ridiculed me because of my mentall illness 21 hours ago diobolic said: Aren't we all glad someone was allowed back to sully the Daze and fill it full of hate and nonsense?
"21 hours ago riseabovethis said: Let's talk nonsense then. How about we talk about over 50 court cases? Show everyone evidence that the election was stolen?" 20 hours ago diobolic said: LOL... Look... squirrel....sunnyds.proboards.com/thread/18297/believe-me
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Post by flan327 on Feb 18, 2022 8:39:12 GMT -5
Don’t stoop to dio’s level
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Post by Deleted on Feb 18, 2022 8:39:22 GMT -5
@diobolic , you pathetic excuse for a man. The only reason you made that post was to ridicule me.
You didn't answer the question so the only reason you made the post was to denigrate me.
@diobolic , now lie to everyone and say you didn't ridicule me when you said this
LOL... Look... squirrel....
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Post by Deleted on Feb 18, 2022 9:21:52 GMT -5
@diobolic , you pathetic excuse for a man. The only reason you made that post was to ridicule me. You didn't answer the question so the only reason you made the post was to denigrate me.@diobolic , now lie to everyone and say you didn't ridicule me when you said thisLOL... Look... squirrel....It was ridicule, but not because of mental illness. It was because of your trolling and seeming inability to either ignore or not focus on the numerous times I, and others here, have answered your trolling question and provided examples. Perhaps it might be best to take the advice others have given you here, as they care for you and your problem. Failing that, maybe this isn't the best place for you.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 18, 2022 9:28:33 GMT -5
Show everyone evidence that the election was stolen?
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Post by Deleted on Feb 18, 2022 9:41:58 GMT -5
It was ridicule, but not because of mental illness. It was because of your trolling and seeming inability to either ignore or not focus on the numerous times I, and others here, have answered your trolling question and provided examples. Perhaps it might be best to take the advice others have given you here, as they care for you and your problem. Failing that, maybe this isn't the best place for you. LOL... Look... squirrel....Why didn't you call me a troll then? Someone with morals and values wouldn't call someone with a mental illness a "squirrel," they'd call them a troll. You didn't answer the question so the only reason you made your post was to rididule me. Prove you weren't by answering this question I asked you. Show everyone evidence that the election was stolen?
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Post by Deleted on Feb 18, 2022 9:49:48 GMT -5
The election ? This kind of took a turn. Since your here why don't you show everyone that you have morals and values by answering this question. Show everyone the evidence that the election was stolen?
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Post by Deleted on Feb 18, 2022 9:51:27 GMT -5
It was ridicule, but not because of mental illness. It was because of your trolling and seeming inability to either ignore or not focus on the numerous times I, and others here, have answered your trolling question and provided examples. Perhaps it might be best to take the advice others have given you here, as they care for you and your problem. Failing that, maybe this isn't the best place for you. LOL... Look... squirrel....Why didn't you call me a troll then? Someone with morals and values wouldn't call someone with a mental illness a "squirrel," they'd call them a troll. You didn't answer the question so the only reason you made your post was to rididule me. Prove you weren't by answering this question I asked you. Show everyone evidence that the election was stolen? Oh bother, I told you I didn't know you were mentally ill. And there is no reason to repeat myself over and over again, ad nauseam. If you want to see the evidence I've provided about the problems with the election go research my responses. ---- What does look... squirrel mean? Refers the moments when you are easily distracted. Such as “the act of being distracted in the middle of–wow, something shiney!” From the move “Up” by Disney/Pixar where the taking dogs will stop whatever they are doing, shout “SQUIRREL” and look off. etherealmind.com/network-dictionary-squirrel/
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Post by Deleted on Feb 18, 2022 9:57:10 GMT -5
LOL... Look... squirrel....Why didn't you call me a troll then? Someone with morals and values wouldn't call someone with a mental illness a "squirrel," they'd call them a troll. You didn't answer the question so the only reason you made your post was to rididule me. Prove you weren't by answering this question I asked you. Show everyone evidence that the election was stolen? Oh bother, I told you I didn't know you were mentally ill. And there is no reason to repeat myself over and over again, ad nauseam. It you want to see the evidence I've provided about the problems with the election go research my responses. ---- What does look... squirrel mean? Refers the moments when you are easily distracted. Such as “the act of being distracted in the middle of–wow, something shiney!” From the move “Up” by Disney/Pixar where the taking dogs will stop whatever they are doing, shout “SQUIRREL” and look off. etherealmind.com/network-dictionary-squirrel/Why didn't you answer the question? Show everyone evidence that the election was stolen?
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Post by Deleted on Feb 18, 2022 9:58:57 GMT -5
Oh bother, I told you I didn't know you were mentally ill. And there is no reason to repeat myself over and over again, ad nauseam. It you want to see the evidence I've provided about the problems with the election go research my responses. ---- What does look... squirrel mean? Refers the moments when you are easily distracted. Such as “the act of being distracted in the middle of–wow, something shiney!” From the move “Up” by Disney/Pixar where the taking dogs will stop whatever they are doing, shout “SQUIRREL” and look off. etherealmind.com/network-dictionary-squirrel/Why didn't you answer the question? Show everyone evidence that the election was stolen?If you want me to do your work, I will, but my rate is $250/hour, paid in advance.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 18, 2022 9:59:56 GMT -5
7 Things You Should Never Use Your Mental Illness As An Excuse For #5. To get extra attention and sympathy There are unobtrusive ways to bring up the fact that you found something offensive because of the illness you’re struggling with. But using your mental illness as a crutch in conversation to get attention (or even pity) is going too far. If you’re with people that are specifically making themselves available to talk about what’s going on with your anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, etc. etc.,then of course that’s what your conversation will center around. But in the middle of the conversation that is miles away from the subject of you or your mental illness, it shouldn’t be used as an attention grab.
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Thank you for not answering the question and proving to everyone you have no morals and values.. Here it is again. Show everyone evidence that the election was stolen?
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Post by Deleted on Feb 18, 2022 10:06:29 GMT -5
Why didn't you answer the question? Show everyone evidence that the election was stolen?If you want me to do your work, I will, but my rate is $250/hour, paid in advance. LOL... Look... squirrel.... Thank you for proving to everyone you have no morals and values by refusing to answer the question. Care to prove me wrong and answer the question. Show everyone evidence that the election was stolen?
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Post by Deleted on Feb 18, 2022 10:12:56 GMT -5
Well you left no doubt now that you have no morals and values. You also told everyone when challenged you don't dare quote someone because they might make you look like a fool.Here's the question, answer it. Show everyone evidence that the election was stolen?
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Post by Deleted on Feb 18, 2022 12:33:11 GMT -5
It was ridicule, but not because of mental illness. It was because of your trolling and seeming inability to either ignore or not focus on the numerous times I, and others here, have answered your trolling question and provided examples. Perhaps it might be best to take the advice others have given you here, as they care for you and your problem. Failing that, maybe this isn't the best place for you. LOL... Look... squirrel....Why didn't you call me a troll then? Someone with morals and values wouldn't call someone with a mental illness a "squirrel," they'd call them a troll. You didn't answer the question so the only reason you made your post was to rididule me. Prove you weren't by answering this question I asked you. Show everyone evidence that the election was stolen? I have to agree that Dio was responding to your political points not attacking your mental health issues. Probably not wise to get in the weeds on politics when one is going thru difficulties. Online message boards can get very animated and people are passionate about issues. So, I do think your charging this as him attacking your mental health is misplaced. None of us knows everyone's backstory.
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