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Post by Deleted on Feb 16, 2022 23:24:48 GMT -5
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Post by flan327 on Feb 17, 2022 5:04:53 GMT -5
Just hold on
Suicide is NOT the answer
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Post by mrright on Feb 17, 2022 14:34:57 GMT -5
Don't kill yourself. The word is censored, I don't think it's fair to censor the word while allowing the behavior, but this is not my forum and I respect the moderator. I think people whining about being called that need to check what they are saying. I've lived almost 61 years as a black man facing racism, I think I know what it looks like and it's not a matter of saying such a thing because someone disagrees with me. There are a lot of things that can be said if people disagree but despite the finest delusions extremists tell themselves, the charge of raccyst can only be done with evidence and when you have a group of people who believe blacks are democrats because we want free stuff, or that liberals tell us that racism exists so we can feel like victims in order to stay dependent on democrats, or run to blame blacks for not getting vaccinated for COVID while whites are unvaxxed in far higher numbers, the assumptions about welfare and food stamps and a bunch of other things right wing posters here have said, the accusation of raccyst is not because there is a disagreement relative to opinions or beliefs. ahh . now i know your problem
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Post by Deleted on Feb 17, 2022 14:44:11 GMT -5
Killing oneself inflicts unbelievable PAIN on survivors. Please do not do this
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Post by Rusty on Feb 17, 2022 15:08:16 GMT -5
Missed the original post but aftee with fuzzems
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Post by deyana on Feb 17, 2022 17:31:52 GMT -5
I can't see the original post.
But I agree with the others, killing yourself is not the answer.
@riseabovethis, I urge you to see a professional in your real life who can help you.
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Post by deyana on Feb 17, 2022 17:36:30 GMT -5
@riseabovethis, Fact is none of us are professionals in the field of mental health on here.
You need to seek out and get some help near where you live. Please do this asap.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 17, 2022 17:39:16 GMT -5
Don't kill yourself. The word is censored, I don't think it's fair to censor the word while allowing the behavior, but this is not my forum and I respect the moderator. I think people whining about being called that need to check what they are saying. I've lived almost 61 years as a black man facing racism, I think I know what it looks like and it's not a matter of saying such a thing because someone disagrees with me. There are a lot of things that can be said if people disagree but despite the finest delusions extremists tell themselves, the charge of raccyst can only be done with evidence and when you have a group of people who believe blacks are democrats because we want free stuff, or that liberals tell us that racism exists so we can feel like victims in order to stay dependent on democrats, or run to blame blacks for not getting vaccinated for COVID while whites are unvaxxed in far higher numbers, the assumptions about welfare and food stamps and a bunch of other things right wing posters here have said, the accusation of raccyst is not because there is a disagreement relative to opinions or beliefs. ahh . now i know your problem What's my problem?
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Post by Deleted on Feb 17, 2022 18:16:33 GMT -5
@riseabovethis , Fact is none of us are professionals in the field of mental health on here. You need to seek out and get some help near where you live. Please do this asap. Crap I copied my reply to my thread then forgot to post it here. It's not a problem now. I've dealt with it for over three years. Three weeks ago it was problem. Thirteen months ago it was a major problem, while all of you were watching the attempted overthrow of U.S. Governemnt I was lying unconcious on a bed in lockdown on psyche ward after I tried to kill myself for the third time. I missed all the excitement. I haven't figured out yet how to deal with it when seasonal depression comes along. I have 10 months to figure it out a coping skill to deal with it. Keeping my mind occupied didn't work twice. I'll continue on my thread.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 17, 2022 18:34:48 GMT -5
It may not be a problem at this moment that you have alluded to it more than once. So I would assume that you would benefit from ongoing help. But as Deyana said we are not mental health professionals so you should avail yourself of that
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Post by flan327 on Feb 17, 2022 19:20:58 GMT -5
For years I suffered from SAD
HATED THE COLD THE SHORT DAYS
Larry used to go on a skiing trip every winter which meant that HE was happy
One year I decided to take 2 days off work I stayed home Wore my comfy pajamas And ate pasta for breakfast It actually helped me
Now I’m okay in the winter
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Post by Deleted on Feb 17, 2022 20:31:06 GMT -5
I seem to have the hardest time around the end of Feb or March. The winter gets long and not enough sunlight and so forth.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 17, 2022 21:31:50 GMT -5
Thank you for your kind words and i'll reply tomorrow. While I was trying to sleep I finally started thinking about something that happened today. It was so dissappointing and upsetting that I was forced to think about it and figure out a way to deal with it. I made a post and they quoted me. This is what they said "LOL... Look... squirrel...."What kind of person says something like that to someone like me?I now have a reason to hate someone here and the only two people I've ever hated in my life were Hitler and trump. I never completely hated my mom.@diobolic did it give you a hard on to ridicule me about my mental illness on this thread.sunnyds.proboards.com/thread/18297/believe-mebottom of page 1
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Post by Rusty on Feb 17, 2022 22:32:02 GMT -5
It may not be a problem at this moment that you have alluded to it more than once. So I would assume that you would benefit from ongoing help. But as Deyana said we are not mental health professionals so you should avail yourself of that See my last post but Fuzzems is right. Anf if you're not comfortable with one find another
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Post by deyana on Feb 17, 2022 22:33:00 GMT -5
I seem to have the hardest time around the end of Feb or March. The winter gets long and not enough sunlight and so forth. Same. February is the worst month for me. The winter has by now already dragged on for months on end and it's quite severe around these parts. I yearn for the warmth and brightness of the sun.
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Post by Rusty on Feb 17, 2022 23:57:22 GMT -5
Wondering where the evangelical members are. Awful quiet guys.......
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Post by Deleted on Feb 18, 2022 6:54:01 GMT -5
I have found some evangelical materials to be helpful. I read Joyce Meyer's "Battlefied of the Mind" and while one may or may not be of an evangelical bent, it is an insightful book on what our thinking. And, the we need to think about what we are thinking about and then insight into how that affects us. So, it's not a book for everyone but I think it is good book for some
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Post by Deleted on Feb 18, 2022 7:17:01 GMT -5
I've had some really dark days in recent months. Luckily, I'm feeling much better and I pray for the same for you. I hope you can live up to your screen name and rise above this. Just know I am rooting for you to find the right help and sending a warm virtual embrace.
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Post by flan327 on Feb 18, 2022 7:46:16 GMT -5
I’m sorry Kat
I don’t wish depression on ANYONE
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Post by Deleted on Feb 18, 2022 7:48:58 GMT -5
Just my own thoughts so not saying anyone should agree or apply to themselves. But, I used to think that i was "supposed" to be happy all the time or somehow my thinking was "wrong". Well, over time I learned that I can embrace all of my feelings, the good and the bad. And that ok maybe i wake up and feel out of sorts and that is my feeling but I dont' necessarily have to let that stop my actions for that day. And usually once i get going, then i feel fine. Again, not an approach for everyone but works for me.
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